Emotional & Self-Regulation

Giving children practical tools to recognize, manage, and recover from strong emotions — so they can stay calm, connected, and ready to learn.

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About this service

Emotional & Self-Regulation

Self-regulation is a child’s ability to manage their emotions, energy, and reactions to match the situation they’re in. When it’s hard, you see frequent meltdowns, difficulty calming down, trouble coping with frustration, or a child who struggles to settle in the classroom. These aren’t “behaviour problems” — they’re skills that can be taught.

Our occupational therapist helps children understand what their body and emotions are telling them and gives them a toolkit of strategies to regulate. We weave in sensory and environmental supports, and coach parents and teachers so the same calm, consistent approach follows your child through their day.

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When to reach out

Signs your child might benefit

If some of these sound familiar, an occupational therapy assessment can help you understand what’s going on and what would help.

Frequent or intense meltdowns and tantrums

Low tolerance for frustration or change

Struggles to recognize or name their own feelings

Regulation challenges alongside sensory or attention differences

Difficulty calming down once upset

Trouble settling or staying regulated at school

Big swings in energy — “too high” or “too low” to engage

Why Vitality Kids

Why Ottawa families choose us

Paediatric-focused care

Therapy designed around child development, delivered in a space built for kids.

Play-based & goal-driven

Sessions feel like play while targeting the specific skills your child needs.

Family-centred plans

We coach you on home strategies so progress continues between visits.

Connected team

OT, physiotherapy, and speech-language pathology under one roof.

Our approach

How we help

Every plan is tailored to your child’s goals, delivered through play-based sessions, and built to carry over into daily life.

01

Build body awareness

We help your child notice the early signs of dysregulation so they can act before emotions boil over.

02

Create a regulation toolkit

Children learn calming and alerting strategies they can actually use in the moment, at home and at school.
03

Support the environment

Sensory and routine adjustments reduce triggers and make staying regulated more achievable.
04

Coach the whole team

Parents and teachers learn a shared, supportive language so your child gets consistent help everywhere they go.

Heard From Ottawa Families

“We finally feel like we have a plan. The sessions feel like play to our daughter, but the progress at home is real.” — Parent of a 6-year-old, Findlay Creek
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Meet Our Registered Occupational therapist

Monika Jane

Monika Lebouthillier

Book an appointment with Monika Lebouthillier

Occupational Therapist · Riverside South

Languages: Bilingual in English and French

Monika LeBouthillier is a registered Occupational Therapist with the College of Occupational Therapists of Ontario. She holds a Master of Health Sciences in Occupational Therapy from the University of Ottawa and provides services in both English and French.

Monika works with children and families to support participation and independence in everyday activities. Her areas of practice include sensory processing and regulation, emotional regulation, feeding, fine motor and gross motor skill development, self-care skills (activities of daily living), handwriting, visual-motor integration, and executive functioning. She has experience supporting children with a variety of developmental, sensory, and neurodiverse profiles.

Monika takes a collaborative, family-centered approach to care and strives to create engaging, meaningful interventions tailored to each child’s unique strengths and goals. She is committed to providing evidence-informed services that promote confidence, skill development, and successful participation at home, school, and in the community.

Questions, answered

Frequently Asked Questions

It’s complementary but different. Occupational therapy focuses on the practical, sensory, and skill-based side of regulation — helping a child recognize and manage their state in daily life. When a child also needs mental-health counselling, we can coordinate with Vitality’s in-house psychotherapy team so support is connected.
Yes. Frequent meltdowns often signal that a child hasn’t yet developed the self-regulation skills to cope with what they’re experiencing. OT helps build those skills and adjusts the environment to reduce triggers, which together can meaningfully reduce how often and how intensely meltdowns happen.
Absolutely. We translate strategies into the classroom and can share practical recommendations with teachers so your child has consistent support during the school day.

Let’s help your child with emotional regulation

Book an initial occupational therapy assessment at Vitality Kids in Riverside South. Our friendly team is ready to answer your questions and find the right starting point for your child.
Or call (613) 909-2837

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Vitality Kids — Riverside South, Ottawa

Click any concern below to learn about signs, our approach, and how we tailor therapy for children in Riverside South and across Ottawa.

Vitality Kids — Riverside South

Address

Earl Armstrong Plaza
160 Blanca Street, Unit 9
Gloucester, ON K1V 2V6

Areas We Serve

Riverside South, Findlay Creek, Barrhaven, Manotick & Greater Ottawa

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